Mindspider Infiltrator (3.5e Optimized Character Build)

Introduction
Summary::Keep enemies in their place while stunning them and dealing decent damage. Also serves as a master infiltrator.

Spells, Powers, Soulmelds, Stances, etc...
Invocations:


 * Eldritch Glaive
 * Frightful Blast
 * Spiderwalk
 * Charm

Progression
Race (Templates): Race::Changeling

At level 20: Final Class Progression::Warlock 6 / Mindbender 1 / Cabinet Trickster 5 / Mindspy 5 / Fighter 1 / Warshaper 2

(After that, take more levels in Warshaper, then concentrate on improving Eldritch Glaive damage by going towards Hellfire Warlock.)

Items of Note

 * Veil of Allure
 * Greater Chausable of Fell Power
 * Gloves of Eldritch Admixture
 * Glamered armor to be able to change both your appearance and clothing at will.

Highlights

 * Assumed stats at level 20:
 * Str: 16 (Base) + 5 (Level) + 6 (Item) + 5 (Tome) + 4 (Morphic Body) = 36 (+13)
 * Cha: 14 (Base) + 6 (Item) = 20 (+5)
 * Attack Bonus: 14 (BAB) + 13 (Str) + 1 (Weapon Focus) - 14 (Power Attack) + 5 (Anticipate) = +19/+14/+9 (Touch attacks)
 * Damage (when they're stunned): 3d6 (Eldritch Blast) + 1d6 (Sneak Attack) + 2d6 (Greater Chausable of Fell Power) + 19 (Two-Handed Strength) + 28 (Two-Handed Power Attack) + 20 (Craven) = 6d6+67
 * Total damage per attack comes out to 88 (on average). Should all attacks hit, that's 264 damage.

Combat Sequence

 * Full attack enemies with Eldritch Glaive all the while keeping them away from you with the combination of Stand Still and Thicket of Blades.
 * Continually Detect Thoughts on those around you and Stun them with Thought Trick.

Further Optimization

 * Be enlarged, or snag a Psionic Tattoo of (augmented) Expansion to have a bigger threatening area for bigger zone control.
 * A psionic tattoo of Strength of My Enemy will add strength damage to your attack,

Limitations

 * SR strongly neuters the powers of Eldritch Glaive.

DM Counters

 * Teleporting foes.
 * Defenses apart from AC (illusions, concealment, etc).

Variants

 * Can switch freely between Mindspy and Cabinet Trickster levels after the first level of Cabinet Trickster.
 * Instead of the SA Fighter, you can grab any class that gives you a die of Sneak Attack. Popular examples include the Lurk, Rogue, Spellthief, or Ninja. However, the Swordsage (who can take Assassin's Stance for 2d6 Sneak Attack damage) is not advisable since that will preclude you from being in the Thicket of Blades stance. Taking a different class than the SA Fighter will lead to a loss of BAB, however, and 2 less damage per attack from Power Attack.

Author's Note
The core of this build is the synergy between Mindspy and Cabinet Trickster. With these as a core, just about any martially-oriented base can be used, and even better if it can have high charisma for the DC of the Cabinet Trickster's abilities.